So, it's 19 months after the birth of my second child and I'm sitting baffled by the bulge above my belt. Why did this happen to me? I was back to a bikini in 3 months after my first daughter. I've contemplated getting an abdominoplasty (tummy tuck), but I'm afraid I'll hate the scar more than the extra tire im lugging around. I need help! I've almost given up.