My Name Is Jeff...and I am Fat

Posted on December 30, 2014

Hi! My name is Jeff...and I am fat. Don't be shocked by my admission. It's something that's a fact and something that I have to openly admit so that I can move on to dealing with the situation that I am in. I'm not feeling sorry for myself, nor am I asking anyone to feel sorry for me. I just have to face facts and now that I've admitted my problem to each of you, I'll work my ass off to change it and come back in a year and write about my success and how much better I feel. This is Step One in my journey to health and I thank each of you for coming along with me.

I have been playing DietBet for several years now and hosting my own games. I've had some success and I absolutely love DietBet. I've also been stupid and once the games have ended, I have gone back to my old ways and I have put my weight back on. I am currently at my heaviest. I have to weigh-in tomorrow for my January 1st Transformer start but I am going to estimate that I will weigh-in around the 380 pound mark. Ugh...just typing that disgusts me..and it should

This time, after taking about a 9 month hiatus from DietBet and healthy eating, I have put my mind in the proper place to tackle this head-on. I am making this statement for all of you to read and I want all of you to hold me accountable...because accountability is one of the only ways that I am going to be able to reach my goal.

I am making it known right here today that I am going to do my absolute best to lose 100 pounds in the next 365 days. By January 1, 2016, I want to write that I weigh at least 100 pounds less than I weigh when I weigh in tomorrow (New Years Eve 2014).

Some of you who read this already know me. I'm a very friendly person who loves people and I love making new friends. For those of you who don't already know me, please say hello in-game or by private message. I am looking forward to making a lot of new friends here on DietBet and your encouragement and support will be paramount in helping me reach my goals. In return, I will gladly offer you my friendship and support. I am very active in-game with posts and motivation and I look forward to, hopefully, helping you reach your goals. Even if you just need a friendly word on a tough day....reach out to me...I'm here for you. Even if we've never met yet. Don't ever be afraid to reach out to me.

Having said that, I wish each of you all the success in the world in reaching your goals and know that I am your biggest fan and cheerleader. To me, DietBet is not a competition. It's a group of people in a very similar situation, who are here to reach a common goal and with the help and support of others, we can all become healthier people TOGETHER. It's not about the money to me. Yes...a little extra cash makes it more fun and motivational..but to me..it's about the people and friendships that are formed. Life-long bonds that are established between people who are all trying to reach the same goal. Be kind to each other. Help each other. Always have a kind word for your fellow players. Treat each other with respect. If you do these things, we'll all be successful.

I look forward to hearing from you and I wish you success in becoming a new, healthier you.

Cheers!

Jeff

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Tinkntx

02/25/2015 6:31AM

You can do it!

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Sharonleetx

01/13/2015 1:58PM

Two weeks in, I hope you are still going strong, Jeff! Never quitting means that no matter what you will get there and it takes power out some of the hiccups in the road. Have a healthy week!

Jeff D.

01/10/2015 7:06AM

Hi Amy! Thanks so much! I think a new wardrobe will be my big reward when I meet my goal! Would love to get a whole bunch of nice new clothes and have a burning party for my old "fat" clothes! :)

Jeff D.

01/10/2015 7:05AM

Hi Jen! Thanks for sharing your story! It sounds a lot like mine! I've added you as a friend here so that I can keep an eye on your progress! I'm proud to have you along with me on this journey! We CAN and WILL do this! #ZeroFailureMindset

Amy G.

01/03/2015 3:58PM

I hope you meet your goal! Yay for encouragers! You should plan an awesome reward for yourself when you meet your 100 lb loss goal!

Jen

01/01/2015 9:01PM

Thanks for your honesty. It is refreshing and inspirational. I have more than 100 pounds to lose too and also find myself at my heaviest. I played 3 diet bet games in 2013 with great success but haven't stuck with changes I had made. I love the idea of the 6-month diet bet so I can stay focused long-term and stop the yo-yo cycle I've been on for the last six years. Here's to a healthier 2015 and big losses for both of us when we weigh in next January!

Nikki M.

12/30/2014 3:39PM

Jeff, I am so honoured to know you and to call you my friend. I want you to know that I'm here for you no matter what.. whether I'm in a diet bet or whether I'm not. Good luck!! I can't wait to see where this journey takes you.. I know you can do it. You are one of the most inspirational people I know who is always there for others with a kind word of encouragement... I hope that we-- your cheer leaders-- remember to do the same and remember to encourage you as you have us! I know I will be there at the finish line!!! Now take 2015 by storm!! (and don't forget to drink your water ;) )

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Jeff D.

Nikki,,,the honor is all mine. You have been my biggest fan throughout my weight-loss journey. You've always kept in close touch with me here and via facebook and you have no idea how much you mean to me. You're wonderful! I am beyond excited that you're coming along on this Transformer with me! Your kind words always make me teary eyed....and I can never thank you enough. Let's make this next 6 months fun and when it's all over, we'll get together for a healthy lunch and a few laughs! *taking a sip of water* It's time...and we will do it TOGETHER! Happy New Year!

Nikki M.

Deal!

Gailsy

12/30/2014 2:39PM

Jeff!!!! WHOO HOOO!!! 100 pounds is A LOT to lose, but if anyone can do it, YOU certainly can. You have a winning attitude and mindset. I am pulling for you 100%. A year from now I will be posting on your cheerboard congratulating you for making your goal! You got this big guy!!!! Best wishes to you!

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Jeff D.

Thanks Gailsy! I'm determined to reach my goals this time. It's not going to be easy but the wonderful community of DietBet players makes it sooooo much easier! Happy New Year! :)

Munchie

12/30/2014 2:24PM

Hi Jeff. Great post! Much success to you in this journey as well! We can check in with one another as we progress over these next 6 months...we can do it!

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Jeff D.

Thank you, Munchie! This one had a pretty serious tone...but I love to make people smile & laugh so my future blogs will probably have a lot of humor and funny stuff. Gotta keep the mood light and keep everyone smiling! Wishing you all the best...and yes...we can..and we WILL do it! :)

Karie T.

12/30/2014 2:09PM

So so proud of you! That is a huge step! You spoke right to me with this post and I think I will join this DietBet with you...again.... And I have the same exact goals in mind! Love you! And we CAN and WILL do this!!!

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Jeff D.

KARIE! You're back! I've missed you! I'm so happy to see you here again. I hope all is well. I would absolutely love to have you along with me on the Transformer! I also have a 4 week DietBet game starting January 1st, too. :) SO glad to hear from you. Look forward to doing this together! Love you too....you're awesome! Happy New Year & let's do this!!! :)