- Remember it's not what you are that is holding you back it's what you think you aren't. You can do anything you set your mind to as long as you believe in yourself. Love yourself and others and everything will fall right into place. I will post a tip on how to become more confident daily. Feel free to join in and tell others how you became a better, more confident you! Fell free to message me anytime you need tips or just some positive reinforcement.