Ok so I had to go to an engagement party tonight and so far I had been doing really well. I find that when I am 100% in control of my environment I have a much easier time. The first time I was greeted with food in a social setting I lost control and that was tonight. I knew in advance that I was coming into a dessert party situation. So it wasn't an issue of being mentally unprepared. I even made a special effort to do my run early so I could still get it in before the party. However, that left me in a situation where I didn't have enough time to eat dinner. So by the time I got to the party I was ravenous. I even ate an apple before but it wasn't enough to last me through the nearly hour long drive. Confession time: I ate some fruit but I also ate 2 small slices of apple crumble, 1 lemon square, 4 small chocolate chip cookies, and coke. As I was doing it I knew it was a bad idea but there were so many choices and they all looked amazing and I was so hungry and we were there for such a long time I just completely lost it. (All excuses... I know) The plus side is I haven't been tracking anything so I don't feel like I ruined a perfect food log and now I need to sabotage myself further. I know that tomorrow at yet another engagement party I can prepare myself a little better for what's going to be presented to me. I'm not going to eat beforehand but being that it is breakfast I already have an idea of what will be there. My plan is to have half a scooped out bagel with a tablespoon of cream cheese and some vegetable and fruit. If I can learn from tonight's mistake and make better choices tomorrow, I won't feel so bad.
Posted on August 28, 2014
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Sign in to CommentSo at the engagement party this morning there was nothing like I expected. It was all dessert and a little fruit. So I had watermelon and a teeny tiny cupcake (like the size of a walnut). Then I went to brunch with friends. I didn't order the healthiest option but it was two meals in one. Also I didn't do so much damage last night. I actually lost half a pound since the previous day so I feel less bad about it.
Sounds like you have already learned from it and know better how to deal with it when you have to face something like that again. Great job for acknowledging it and making the best of it! Situations like that are really tough. You could have done worse! Hang in there!