"Do other people do this?" - hell yeah. Is it good/right? Maybe not, but I notice that when I am not doing it, I am in my own personal hell and downward spiral, and I don't want any thoughts of what I should be doing better."When people say they don't notice how big I am/was, I'm like, come on. That just can't be true." - I have actually noticed that I do this as I get to know someone. And I do it with all sizes. The obese become large and the too skinny become average. The longer I get to know someone, their appearance, unless startlingly different all of a sudden, is not something my mind tracks.Good post.
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