I think it's a lot harder on her, because she's in a strange place full of strangers and starting a new job. She and I have been talking regularly, and I'm back to my normal routine. My biggest stressor has been work. We are down two people in my area, leaving me as the only person left, and I'm overwhelmed with work. I've been putting in 10-11 hour days, am woefully behind, and I just want to go home and eat away everything. I've had some struggles (Monday = Cheetos and wine for dinner, and last night = dinner plus 4 granola bars as a "snack")...but I'm doing well more days than not. It looks like you're losing weight, even if it's not as much as you were hoping for? I hope things are going okay with your parents' care and you are getting some help. Just keep taking it one day at a time...we can do this!