Preach!!! I've experienced all of those things, and it does fill me with anger and frustration. Something I'd add to your list is when people who are NOT obese pretend they can relate to what it's like to actually be obese. It's uncomfortable enough to tell someone, "Hey, I feel like shit because I'm fat," but when they act like they know and they are half your weight, it's just like... REALLY? I mean, thanks for trying, I guess, but come on. You don't know. Like once I told a friend that I didn't want to wear a certain outfit because it made my fat bulge out when I sat down, and she said, "Everyone thinks that about themselves." Girl, I am not EVERYONE, OK? I am me, I am ACTUALLY fat, and you are not making me feel better by trying to act like what I'm dealing with is vanity chubs. I am legitimately, medically, categorically obese, and you're not letting me own that the one time I bring it up because it makes YOU uncomfortable? Try walking in my fat girl shoes.
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