I haven't received a ton of comments of any sort about my weight since childhood really. It seems to be a rude topic of conversation to people in my circle. I've had a couple compliments lately, and I was grateful, but what struck me most was the undertone of desperation that accompanied the compliment. I'm not sure how to address that. These people want change too. How to make it happen for them without getting preachy? That is my quandary.
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