You know what, a few years ago I lost about 90 lbs and I didn't tell a soul I was "dieting" because I was afraid of people judging me, and I was even more afraid of what they would say if I failed. I have since gained back that 90 lbs so that's why I'm here. I've noticed since I lost the weight the first time I've grown a lot and found that I NEED the support. I now have a group of friends that want what I want and it helps. I might have 90 to lose and they might have 5 to lose, but we are there for each other. If you can't confide in those close to you, use all of us here on DietBet. We are here for you. :)I really hope you succeed even if you get a bit lost along the way.
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