Hey, Cupcake Girl! I was wondering if you find the same pattern I do, in the midst of all this. I want to make sure I'm not rationalizing, 'cause I THINK I've settled into a nicely moderated approach ... yeah, I think that's what it is. But maybe I'm just telling myself that.
I find I'm especially good with food for a number of days in a row, and then I let myself indulge for a couple of days ... but I've decided that's a GOOD thing.
Partly 'cause (a) What I call 'indulging' is actually a higher-calorie-but-still-losing figure, or a maintenance level, so it's really not that bad, and (b) I learned that doing that is actually one of the strategies to keep your body happy enough it doesn't feel it needs to go into starvation mode. So, so be it: I'm not always the Diet Queen. ;) And that's just as well, it turns out, because by taking a more "that's ok" kind of attitude, it seems I'm more likely to become the Diet Empress through better consistency over the long run. ;) LOL