To date or to change

I use to do the same thing, I was on dating sites after I had my son. His father disappeared into the military and I was what I thought at the time, lonely. I tried dating sites for a year or so, one year at thanksgiving I went to get get food for my son and I and my grandfather made a heart wrenching comment to me that I didn't need to eat my uncle needs to eat before me. At that point I slammed my plate down and walked out wiht my son, I was so heart broken and hurt by the hateful comment my own grandfather made to me and he had no clue he hurt me. After that I started taking pills and working out and got my shit together. I lost over 30lbs ina few months, One day my friend introduced me to WOW (World of Warcraft)and me and him would game online and at the same time he introduced me to his friend online. After a few months we became great friends,after a year and a half his mom was moving out and he had no where to go and moved into my spare bedrooms after a month we started dating